It
is often the elders among us who understand the value of rituals and who help to
anchor them.
Older people who understand how to be elders, who are able to pass
on encouragement and strength rather than despair and judgment, are gifts to
society.
Elders who have worked through their own failures and inadequacies and
come to terms with their lives are able to mentor without controlling, give
advice without criticizing, and help people who are younger to get in touch with
their own strength, their own soul.
They provide encouragement to go on with
life and to face our challenges with love and courage.
Generations are connected
to one another seamlessly, each leading naturally into the next.
The old receive
the vitality of youth, the youth the stability of the old... and those in the
middle are supported and nurtured in their life's duties.
Be open enough to accept the teachings of the wise elders.
The hand of liberality is stronger than the arm of power. ~ Sadi