Helping Hands, Holistic Care

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Take the Best and Leave the Rest

My dog Daisy is quite discerning. She eats only what she likes and rejects everything else. If I offer Daisy a piece of celery, she walks away from it. If I give her a slice with peanut butter on it, however, she licks off the peanut butter and leaves the celery.
Take what belongs to you by right of your joy and consciousness, and let the rest go. We are not required to put up with situations we cannot digest. We are required to do what expands and heals us and reject what causes us to contract.
The awakened mind functions as a “ blessing extractor. ” Like a vegetable juicer that grinds up a carrot and spits the pulp out of one chute and sends juice out of another, the blessing extractor takes any experience and draws forth the good from it. It shows you how you can enjoy, learn, or grow from all events and relationships. All else is compost, which goes back into the field to grow next year’s crops.
When looking back on past relationships, we must take the best and leave the rest. Bless the other person, yourself, and the relationship for the gifts you gained and the experience through which you grew. Hold on to your appreciation, and release the regret. It does not belong to you. Recycled properly, the relationship will become fertilizer to grow on.
Similarly, every teacher will offer you wisdom you can use, as well as ideas you do not understand, agree with, or wish to employ. Take the best and leave the rest. There is a nugget of good in every experience. Receive what God wants you to have, and let Spirit take care of the rest.

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